tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74820615948715881.post1655994430957464566..comments2023-07-11T02:33:41.065-07:00Comments on Try it 'til you like it.: Control is Best When Stolen (Day 2)Dick Cashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07801824122566347953noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74820615948715881.post-84120296859303093672013-08-21T15:20:52.377-07:002013-08-21T15:20:52.377-07:00Unfortunately, it's a work of fiction, so it h...Unfortunately, it's a work of fiction, so it has yet to be my experience. I'll keep dreaming though!Dick Cashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07801824122566347953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74820615948715881.post-65315469403927667692013-08-16T16:34:22.762-07:002013-08-16T16:34:22.762-07:00Dick,
I loved reading about your experience. Ther...Dick,<br /><br />I loved reading about your experience. There is nothing as satisfying as getting oneself in a position where the top, a really good top, seemingly ignores your will and limits while getting off on your torment.<br /><br />I'd never suggest it but I've "played" with a few real sadists who pushed me far beyond my limits. One of them tried to teach me not to cum during tit torture sessions by using an old field generator to shock my balls. It worked at first but then I started cumming when he shocked me. I love this stuff!quandthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15058344802477546522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74820615948715881.post-54931440425687249652013-04-17T08:23:33.541-07:002013-04-17T08:23:33.541-07:00Wow! Just, WOW! I've never given myself over t...Wow! Just, WOW! I've never given myself over to someone that thoroughly, though there are a couple of folks I've been tempted to with.<br /><br />Jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13521994416812829772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74820615948715881.post-64872142735984140622012-11-14T03:38:22.310-08:002012-11-14T03:38:22.310-08:00Awesome advice, thanks a bunch. Awesome advice, thanks a bunch. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74820615948715881.post-85833874781155103962012-11-13T09:35:22.836-08:002012-11-13T09:35:22.836-08:00In part, trust just came naturally for me; I'd...In part, trust just came naturally for me; I'd been tying myself up since I was a kid, so having someone else at the reigns wasn't quite as daunting. I DO think tying yourself up can help more importantly because it teaches you to untie yourself. It also teaches you that bondage isn't magic; simply tying someone up doesn't make them completely hopeless.<br /><br />The best safeguard I can give is getting involved in your local kink community. Most cities have some sort of bondage club, however small it may be, but the leather, rubber, and general gear communities tend to have lots of guys into bondage. Basically, there aren't many crazies out there and being in a community means having a fairly comprehensive list of what few crazies there are.<br /><br />All in all, you still just have to do it. Set limitations (only your hands can be tied, only edging while tied, etc) and find a guy who will operate within them. Check out my "Negotiating a Scene" post in the links down the right of my page for some pointers on how to steer a discussion to verify the guy you're talking to is responsible.<br /><br />Best of luck, and do be sure to share when it happens. O;-)Dick Cashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08032005480502871563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74820615948715881.post-37597500079434092802012-11-13T03:40:31.732-08:002012-11-13T03:40:31.732-08:00Please say part 3 is coming soon!
Honestly, I lov...Please say part 3 is coming soon!<br /><br />Honestly, I love your blog! I've been very curious about BDSM for quite some time but have never had the courage to try it. The truth is, I have a hard time trusting anyone to tie me up. How did you get past that? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com