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Blackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14598058396076026111noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74820615948715881.post-25940269198504073172013-01-24T15:24:16.224-08:002013-01-24T15:24:16.224-08:00Hi Dick, many thanks for your reply. However, I ha...Hi Dick, many thanks for your reply. However, I have to clarify that during the marriage I had, I was very attracted to women sexually, considering myself purely heterosexual, or at least thought so. It was later that my orientation changed, if such is possible, and the experience I had might play a huge role regarding this, as it was kind of traumatizing me regarding women sexually. I was not blocking sex at all, I craved for it, but it was my ex-wife who blocked any sex to happen with ultimate force due to some mental issues I suppose, and had I took any step to force it due to my appetite for her, it would have been rape imo - and in her's, I suppose. And there is hardly anything I dislike more than raping, so there was no choice, especially since I truly loved her, not ever wanting to hurt her in any way. Of course, I hoped it to change some day, trying to support her in any way possible, but learned that I could do nothing about it, since she did not want to change or develop, maybe due to fear, and besides that, a partner is simply not in the position to be any kind of therapist. Instead, I drained my energy, feeling deeply hurt and ultimately denied myself. When I left the relationship, feelings of ultimate failure just added on top. I was quite a wreck back then. But this was long ago, and I grew again in the meantime, though some scars might remain forever. Sorry that I was not clear enough about it first place, causing confusion thereby, but I am no native speaker of english.<br /><br />Many thanks for your kind wishes, I do my best to move forward, just as I do not want to stay single forever. I have been alone for too long already, I suppose.<br /><br />Btw, many thanks for making, updating and caring for this blog. I think it is great, containing hot material as well as most thoughtful entries!Rolandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05388117094641101950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74820615948715881.post-6449907672029810672012-12-30T23:49:59.972-08:002012-12-30T23:49:59.972-08:00Thank you so much for sharing, Roland! It's de...Thank you so much for sharing, Roland! It's definitely a more difficult situation when sexual orientation is the issue instead of sexual appetite or interests. Though I'm very sorry you had to go through that ordeal, I'm glad things worked out in the end; better that you got out instead of reading this while still in an emotionally abusive relationship. Best of luck moving forward!Dick Cashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07801824122566347953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74820615948715881.post-43598163672824434162012-12-29T14:41:45.753-08:002012-12-29T14:41:45.753-08:00Dick, many thanks for this entry! From my perspect...Dick, many thanks for this entry! From my perspective, having been emotionally abused for several years in a marriage with a wive totally blocking any sex for fear of it, all your conclusions are fully and absolutely correct. Finally, I got through divorce, entering marriage as a male virgin and exiting it without change - though I had a very healthy sexual appetite. Though I still think it was the best way for both involved, I do not wish anyone any similar experience. Just for the records: this was no BDSM relationship, it was a vanilla relationship. Only later I learned that I was actually gay, or at least assume it to be.<br /><br />Many thanks again for your very true words!Rolandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05388117094641101950noreply@blogger.com