Wednesday, June 20, 2012


I've been neglecting the blog a bit in part due to a temporary sexual lull and in part due to more projects around the new apartment. In the last week or so I've had a few more vanilla boys than usual contact me after checking out the blog. Most of it is things people have been curious about but not too familiar with, but some have mentioned finding completely new interests.

It makes me really happy to hear about guys who are considering a broadening of their horizons, and I feel guilty not keeping up the blog as much as I should. I do want to take a second in the continued lull to say the following:

Be confident in your curiosities and don't let haters get you down. There are plenty of people who are warm and welcoming, and any who aren't should be shelved and forgotten. Or to put it in a more cliche fashion: those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter - words so true even a child can understand.