Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Weekend Scene Contract

Having a contract drafted for weekend submission has a few benefits; first and foremost it makes sure that both parties are on the same page as to the expectations, limitations, and concessions that have been made. In addition to that, having a boy read through the contract before signing it at the start of the weekend can be a huge mindfuck as he's being very blatantly reminded of what he's about to endure. I was under the impression that most contracts (particularly regarding rape) may not be enforceable, but stumbled upon this article on some rather draconian aspects of modern rape prosecution. At any rate, if a scene goes so badly that a sub is seeking prosecution under the law there's probably some serious ineptitude on the Dom's part, but it still never hurts to have some modicum of protection in the event a sub isn't mature enough to accept responsibility for mistakenly requesting what he did.

That being said, I recently went hunting for a contract that would be suitable and stumbled upon one that had some language I really liked. Essentially, rather than just detailing limits and expectations it goes so far as to itemize a number of things that might be prosecuted under law as items for which consent is expressly waived. This particular contract goes far enough to even detail allowing castration or similar mutilation, but the important part of the contract is more the language leading into the itemization. As an added safeguard, it also appoints the Dom as "attorney-in-fact" in the event of a medical emergency where the sub may be incapacitated. It's rather long so I'm including it after the jump, but it should be fairly easy to modify for any scene.

WAIVER AND CONSENT OF ZZZZ Z ZZZZ IN FAVOUR OF MASTER XXXXXXX

This Waiver and Consent is granted by me, zzzz z.zzzz (hereinafter referred to in the first person), of qqqqqq, qqqqqq, in favour of the Dominant Man known as Master Xxxxxxx, of ••••••, •••••••, and to Master Xxxxxxx's agents and assigns.

WHEREAS:

    a.    i desire to present myself to Master Xxxxxxx and offer Him control over my body for the period from ___ until and including ____;

    b.    The helplessness, fear, terror, pain, humiliation, rape, risk of mutilation, inter alia identified herein as my desires to experience are fundamentally incompatible with my right to withdraw consent during the period specified herein, and i therefore waive and relinquish my right(s) to withdraw consent during period specified herein in exchange for the fulfilment of my desires described herein;

    c.    i desire to be able to scream, beg, plead and/or otherwise request or demand that Master Xxxxxxx and/or third parties cease and desist from performing acts under the provisions of this Waiver and Consent, without my screams, begs, pleadings and/or other requests or demands being in any way effective, and that no so-called "safe-words" shall be recognised;

    d.    i desire to experience a complete lack of control in the hands of Dominant Men;

    e.    i desire to experience complete helplessness;

    f.    i desire to experience, to the greatest extent possible, being held captive as a kidnapping victim, by Dominant, brutal Men Who enjoy both total power over my body and complete immunity from criminal liability and civil liability for Their actions;

    g.    i desire to be manhandled by strong, aggressive, Dominant Men, particularly by those older, heavier, and taller than myself;

    h.    i desire to experience regret and second-thoughts;

    i.    i desire to experience genuine fear and fright;

    j.    i desire to experience genuine risk of mutilation;

    k.    i do not generally enjoy pain and i have a low threshold for pain;

    l.    i nevertheless desire Master Xxxxxxx to be free to torture, and/or to cause me to be tortured, to the extent that doing so, and in the manner(s) that doing so, provides Him sexual excitement and/or gratification, provided however that the manner(s) of torture are not reasonably calculated to cause permanent injury, broken bones, nor facial wounds;

    m.    i desire to experience humiliation in public and in private;

    n.    i desire to be as naked as practical at all times during the period specified herein, to the extent that such nudity does not present a reasonable risk of arrest, prosecution, denial of travel on common carriers, or exposure-based ailment/injury;

    o.    i desire that my body, internally and externally, be offered as a urinal for Men;

    p.    i do not desire to contract a sexually transmitted disease;

    q.    i nevertheless recognise and accept the inherent danger of disease transmission from receiving unprotected sodomy under the provisions of this Waiver and Consent and i hold that no party who honestly and reasonably believes an active sodomiser to be free of communicable disease shall be criminally or civilly liable for the transmission of disease by such sodomiser under the provisions of herein;

    r.    i desire to experience homosexual gang-rape;

    s.    i desire to experience forcible homosexual sodomy as the passive recipient thereof, without any obligation for the active penetrator(s) to wear condoms and without any expectation or anticipation on my part that the active penetrator(s) will wear condoms;

    t.    i do not think that i consciously wish to my penis to be permanently damaged, reduced or amputated, yet i frequently fantasise about my penis being permanently reduced or amputated;

    u.    i nevertheless recognise and accept the possibility that a portion of my penis, up to and including my entire penis, may be amputated under the provisions of this Waiver and Consent, and i hold that no party shall be under any obligation to preserve, protect, nor return to me such amputated tissue;

    v.    i nevertheless recognise and accept the possibility that my penis may be pierced or otherwise damaged under the provisions of this Waiver and Consent and hold that  no party shall be under any obligation to preserve, protect or repair my penis;

    w.    i desire Master Xxxxxxx to enjoy the authority and autonomy to pierce my non-facial flesh, and to cause my non-facial flesh to be pierced, as He may please;

    x.    i am smaller, weaker, and younger than Master Xxxxxxx, and i am sexually aroused by being smaller, weaker, and younger than Dominant Men such as Master Xxxxxxx;

    y.    Master Xxxxxxx is a Dominant Man;

    z.    Master Xxxxxxx has an affinity for humiliating smaller, weaker men, both in public and in private;

    aa.    Master Xxxxxxx has an affinity for modifying, reducing, and amputating the penises of smaller, weaker men, and for causing the penises of smaller, weaker men to be modified, reduced and amputated in their entirety;

    bb.    Master Xxxxxxx has an affinity for piercing the flesh of smaller, weaker men;

    cc.    Master Xxxxxxx has an affinity for restraining and torturing smaller, weaker men;

    dd.    Master Xxxxxxx has an affinity for sodomising smaller, weaker men;

    ee.    Master Xxxxxxx has an affinity for offering smaller and weaker men to be sodomised and humiliated by other Men, and for demanding that smaller and weaker men be subject to sodomy and humiliation by other Men;

    ff.    Master Xxxxxxx has an affinity for causing smaller and weaker men to cry, beg, plead and otherwise request or demand mercy and/or a cessation of His actions, while enjoying complete authority to ignore such cries, begging, pleading, and other requests or demands, and enjoying complete immunity from criminal and civil liability;

    gg.    Master Xxxxxxx has an affinity for urinating into and onto smaller and weaker men; and for offering smaller and weaker men as a urinal for other Men; 

    hh.    Master Xxxxxxx has expressed an honest and reasonable belief in His ability to amputate a portion of a penis without substantial risk of loss of life, and Master Xxxxxxx harbours no intent nor desire to personally amputate any portion of a penis beyond what He honestly and reasonably believes capable of amputating without substantial risk of loss of life;

    ii.    Master Xxxxxxx has expressed a desire to cause my penis to be amputated in its entirety if He were to recruit someone whom He honestly and reasonably believes to be capable of doing so without substantial risk of loss of life;

    jj.    my retention of my testicles and scrotum, and their continued normal operation, are beneficial to all parties, as essential for generating sexual desire, acquiescence to further submission to others, sexual frustration, and so that they can be a source of pain and discomfort by being pulled, twisted, stretched, bound, and otherwise treated in manners not reasonably likely to cause permanent damage thereto;

    kk.    This Waiver and Consent shall become effective and binding upon me only upon my voluntary presentment of myself to Master Xxxxxxx at a location within a radius of ____ miles of •••••, •••••••• on or before ____, and shall have no effect until such presentment; and this Waiver and Consent shall be deemed permanently withdrawn, null, void, and moot if i fail or decline to voluntarily present myself to Master Xxxxxxx within ____ miles of •••••, •••••••• on or before _____; and 

    ll.    i have drafted and edited this Waiver and Consent calmly, in a calculated thoughtful manner, over a period of weeks, without any deadline, in private, in the safety of my own home, without any threat or coercion, and that i did so in an effort to obtain that which i have heretofore herein catalogued as my desires.

THEREFORE:

    1.    i hereby submit to Master Xxxxxxx's will, control and authority for the period specified herein. Moreover, i hereby request Master Xxxxxxx to exercise His free will, complete control and absolute authority over me for the period specified herein, and to deny me any right which i may otherwise have to exercise my own will, control or authority over myself or my body for the period specified herein; provided however, that i retain the right to authorise and consent to necessary medical treatment.

    2.    i hereby consent for the period specified herein to being restrained, held captive, tortured, mutilated, sodomised, humiliated, given for use by others, displayed, transported, gang-raped, and otherwise treated in a manner consistent with my expressed desires herein and my expressed understandings herein of Master Xxxxxxx's affinities, by Master Xxxxxxx and His agents and assigns. Moreover, i hereby request Master Xxxxxxx and His agents and assigns to restrain me, hold me captive, torture me, sodomise me, humiliate me, use my body for their sexual gratification, display me, transport me, gang-rape me, and otherwise treat me in a manner consistent with my expressed desires herein and my expressed understandings herein of Master Xxxxxxx's affinities.

    3.    i hereby consent, for the period specified herein, to photography and videography, on the condition that one copy of each such photograph or video recording captured of me under the provisions hereof is provided to me for my own continued private enjoyment and humiliation.

    4.    i hereby waive, in perpetuity, any rights which i would otherwise have to claim that Master Xxxxxxx, His agents or/and his assigns committed any crime or tort against or upon me for any action(s) taken consistent with my expressed desires herein and my expressed understandings herein of Master Xxxxxxx's affinities.

    5.    i hereby acknowledge that such actions that are taken consistent with my expressed desires herein and my expressed understandings herein of Master Xxxxxxx's affinities, are taken not merely with my permission, but moreover such actions are taken at my affirmative request.

    6.    i hereby waive, in perpetuity, any objection to the use of this Waiver and Consent in defence of actions taken consistent with my expressed desires herein and my expressed understandings herein of Master Xxxxxxx's affinities.

    7.    i hereby appoint Master Xxxxxxx as my attorney-in-fact for the purpose of obtaining emergency medical treatment during the period specified herein, and to authorise and consent on my behalf to requisite emergency medical treatment in the event of my incompetency, provided, however, that Master Xxxxxxx take all reasonable steps to cause such emergency medical treatment to be provided by the United States Department of Veterans Affairs, so as to mitigate the risk of me being unable to pay for such emergency medical treatment.

    8.    i hereby appoint Master Xxxxxxx as my attorney-in-fact for the purpose of obtaining, authorising, and consenting on my behalf, irrespective of my competency, during the period specified herein, to such medical, cosmetic, and anatomical modification procedures as are consistent with my expressed desires herein and my expressed understandings herein of Master Xxxxxxx's affinities.

i, zzzz z.zzzz, have written, read, reviewed, and concur with this Waiver and Consent. i have affixed my initials and today's date to the bottom of each page of this Waiver and Consent, which consists of a total of four (4) numbered pages. This Waiver and Consent accurately expresses my desires, my intentions, and my understandings of Master Xxxxxxx's affinities. i intend and desire to be fully bound by the provisions of this Waiver and Consent.

Sworn to and attested:


_____________________    _____________________
zzzz z.zzzz                               date


STATE OF _______    }
                                       } §
COUNTY OF ______   }

Sworn to and subscribed before me by zzzz z.zzzz whose identity has been satisfactorily proven to me, this __________ day of ______________________ 20_____. My commission expires _________________________________________.


_________________________________    {SEAL}
Notary Public

5 comments:

  1. This seems more like the beginnings of an awesome mindfuck than something people might sign. have you ever used this agreement or one similar in its extremity?

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  2. I had a weekend scene I wanted to have a contract for, but I didn't want to draft it myself since that would ruin most of the mindfuck. The Dom involved wasn't too interested in it so it kind of fizzled out. But yeah, I'm always "shooting myself in the foot" with Doms, and I've had a couple that actually kept lists of things I mentioned that I hate. Getting there for the weekend and having a list of them reminding me how much I fucked myself would be brutal.

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  3. I found that it works better to give a list of things that you do not consent to than making a long and cumbersome contract. I also found that as our relationship intensified that my original list became shorter but I and I alone have the right to change those articles.

    Making a long contract also encumbers the Dom rather than respecting them for their skills and ability to be truly dominate.

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    1. I can certainly understand where you're coming from, and in most circumstances that may be a much simpler option. The reason I single out a contract like this is regarding play that dances around consensual nonconsent. I've Domed guys who have wanted to basically be pain-raped and taken well beyond their limit. Even being a really good read it can still be tricky to tell if a guy really wants what he claimed or just got caught up in a horny/fantasy moment. Having a longer contract like this that's tedious enough to kill any hardon can help a sub demonstrate he truly was clear-headed while detailing what he wants.

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  4. I am finding that as we grow in our relationship that consent became a non-conversation, simply because to the level of trust in the relationship. However, even with witnesses to the nature of our relationship, if Master were to cause damage to the point of limited my capacity to communicate or death, he would face the possibility of criminal prosecution.

    A contract such as this is legally non-committable in the courts. It may provide some protection for the Dom if you decided to litigate against him for something that you asked for. The courts, even in our day, would question your sanity and capacity to willingly enter such a contract.

    The contract is a horny read but entering a situation without a safeword, especially with a Dom that you are not familiar with is a dangerous thing today

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