Try it 'til you like it.: Chastity in Bondage

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Chastity in Bondage

As a sub, it's pretty easy to get fixated on your cock. It's pretty hard to do better than the direct pleasure of being stroked. For me, being locked in chastity helps me focus on deriving pleasure from other things in a scene. It's not just that you feel even more controlled in that it's clearly not about making you feel good, it's that it forces your brain to make other connections to derive pleasure. If I'm locked in chastity while tied, just hearing a guy stroke himself while he does mean things to me is pleasurable.

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Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Chastity in Bondage

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