Try it 'til you like it.: Weekend Wishlist

Friday, January 11, 2013

Weekend Wishlist - MAL Edition

I'm at MAL from yesterday through Monday morning. Feel free to say hello if you happen to see me around! If I've got time I might throw up a quick post at some point, but the hope is that I won't even have time for that. I usually do more socializing that playing at events, but I'm aiming to switch that a bit this weekend. I guess we'll see, and hopefully I'll have some photos afterwards as well. I'm sure I've posted a few of these before, but this is just a wishlist after all.

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AnonymousJanuary 11, 2013 at 8:04 AM
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Dick's Picks

Basics

Why Bondage? - confused or appaled by kink? Here's some food for thought as to why it's more intimate and fulfilling than you might have expected.

Confidence and Pride - a look at why kink is okay.

Kink and Anxiety - thoughts on being mindful of those trying to become a part of something.

Beginner's Bondage Kit - all the basics you need to handle a wide variety of scenes.

Getting Involved - some tips on where and how to find local kinksters.

Try it 'Til You Like It - the philosophy, explained.

Relationship Models - why it's important to discuss rules governing your relationship with your partner instead of assuming traditional rules.

For Doms

The Importance of Timing - information on how training through immediate corrections can yield results delayed punishment may not.

Types of Humiliation - two different classes of humiliation, examples of each, and a comparison of the versatility of both.

Protecting Your Boy - some things to keep in mind (or be prepared for) before engaging in public play.

Creating Devotion in an Unwilling Sub - a more advanced topic, this post discusses using operant conditioning to control a boy who, in the moment, doesn't wish to be controlled.

For subs

BDSM Checklist - get to know yourself a bit better with this checklist of BDSM-related pursuits.

Negotiating a Scene - some pointers on ensuring you and whomever you're playing with are able to have a good time.

Levels of Trust - a look at different degrees of trust one might have in a play partner and how that trust impacts scene negotiation.

Safewords - my own personal approach to scenes and justification as to why I take such a controversial approach.

Stories

Helplessness - my recounting of one of the hottest scenes I've ever had, and a shining example of "you get what you wish for."

My Favorite Mindfuck - an example of why operant conditioning (à la Pavlov’s Dog) can be adapted in a scene to really screw with a boy's head.

Control is Best When Stolen (Day 1) - a fictional tale about being abducted and forced into submission at a leather event.

Control is Best When Stolen (Day 2) - the saga continues as our victim is awoken by a gag being thrust into his mouth.

Friday, January 11, 2013

Weekend Wishlist - MAL Edition

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